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What’s up for discussion on the “FORUM” Tab?

Mon, 24 May 2010 21:41:18 +0000

Here are some of the topics that women just like you are talking about on the Womensville.com FORUM. You are welcome to comment on any of these. Be brave. Offer your voice and offer your own struggles. We are all women and we all know how it feels to be stuck. We also know how it feels to get unstuck. Success stories are always welcome! Your story could change the life of another.

Women need to express all the time. The mere act of expressing is often all a woman needs, to come to her senses and make the necessary changes to get the results she wants.

Sometimes women need to express and be related to, before we can believe that we are not alone and that our problem isn’t unique.

Womensville’s Forum is a place to express whatever is encumbering you. Womensville.com will respond to all posts like this; We will assume you the reader/listener are already at a place of high self esteem. If the advice given does not sit well for you ask yourself, “how would I respond to this if I were in a state of high self esteem?” Then decide if taking your self esteem level into your own hands is something you want to do, so that you can access results. This, my friend is what personal coaching is all about. We’re here to help you get results. REAL results.

Before you post something on the forum it will be helpful to you if you first decide if what you want and need is;

a) just a place to vent

b) seeking someone who can relate to you, so that you can access hope and not feel alone.

c) needing a place to be right

d) ready to access the advice given by womensville, by taking responsibility for raising your level of self esteem, so that the advice can best reach you and give you the results you are looking for.

Womensville. A social networking site for women.

BUBBLE, BUBBLE, TOIL AND TROUBLE

Wed, 21 Apr 2010 19:20:14 +0000

Memories of that phrase come to mind as I watch the Icelandic Volcano erupt over and over again. It is causing so much disruption in travel, the economy and on personal budgets too. One volcano in a country so far away effecting things we do here right in Canada? Wow, powerful isn’t it?
That makes me think of Anger and how it can cause all sorts of issues, disrupt lives and be felt down the line from where it actually starts from. Did you know Anger can be a by-product of other feelings that are lying underneath the surface and not being dealt with? If not dealt with appropriately at that time, these feelings then sit there, bubbling away until one day – BOOM!!!! – there is a huge explosion that comes out of nowhere and leaves people wondering what the world just happened.
These feelings can be of sadness, feeling irritable or restless, fear, hurt, distant, jealous, confused, frustrated, inadequate, overwhelmed, resentful, guilt, ashamed, embarrassed, helpless, rejected… and the list goes on. Feelings that at the time that they occur, are powerful within themselves, but if left unattended to will fizzle for a bit and bubble until they can overwhelm you into Anger. It is important to go underneath your anger and discover what else lies there.
If this happens to you, ask yourself these questions:
Where did that come from?
What am I not seeing here?
What else am I feeling?
Is there anything I haven’t dealt with from previously that I may need to?
What have I been holding onto that may be ghosting here?
Have I eaten or drank water in the last little while (sometimes thirst or hunger can cause us to blow up when not intending to due to dehydration or low blood sugars)?

The point here is to go beneath the surface and check it out. If these feelings are not dealt with and are constantly shoved under the rug, they will erupt sooner or later and most often under the disguise of Anger.

Lynnette Vetsch
Director
Amaxa Coaching and Training Services
http://www.amaxa.org/

"How do I know my lifes purpose?"

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:49:12 +0000

Depression, Self doubt and fear are the villains of every woman’s life. Around every success, sabotage lurks. Around every celebration, discouragement spies, and around every step towards making a difference in the world there hides a land mine ready to expose our character defects. Be ready girls; be ready to fight these tyrants with a surefire weapon that never misses the mark. Random acts of kindness. The shield that protects every woman’s feelings of self doubt. Being generous, puts our so called problems into perspective. Caring more about the well being of another builds an immunity to depression and self doubt. It may not stop the fear, but finding a friend to perform these acts will blast most fear out of the vicinity, and will be a moment that will not be forgotten in your heart. Pick up the phone and call a woman who you know will lift your spirits and keep you on the right track.

I truly believe that our natural gifts and talents are what guide us down the yellow brick road of a purpose laden life. There is nothing that could compare to a human being fully entrenched in living and feeling content in giving her best to her life’s purpose. You know what you love. You know what turns your crank. You and only you, know what your natural tendencies lean towards, and you know what makes your heart sing. Living a life that is entrenched in this thick and hearty soup of goodness is what all human beings were meant to do. Excuse the descriptions I just can’t help it sometimes.

Claiming your life’s purpose, on your own, is the antidote that will irradicate the nasty villains in your life.

Every human being has a purpose here on earth.