Relationship Q&A
Reality vs Fantasy
December 17, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
One of the best things a woman can do for herself and for the future success of her relationships, is to know the distinctions between emotion filled fantasies and realistic human tendencies.A lot of books appeal to women’s emotions, which can be dangerous. Here’s why; As soon as our emotions change, then so do our [...]
"I'm 40, love my career and know for sure I want to be married and have a family. Why is it taking so long?"
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The unfortunate thing about women in their 40’s, who think they still want to start a family, is that a lot of the relationship skills necessary to achieve this, are in some degree of atrophy. We hope WomensVille, will be like physio, for your heart and feminine spirit. Putting these suggestions into practice may be [...]
"My relationships seem to last about 14 month’s tops. Can being in a relationship be fun for more than just the early stages?"
December 17, 2009 by · 3 Comments
Left to its own, your relationship will cool off as quickly as a kettle on your counter does after it’s reached a boil. Once you can find the joy in doing what works, and the joy in what you are committed to, then life and your relationships get fun again. Relationships are commitments. They [...]
"What constitutes grounds for a break up? How can I be sure not to have any regrets?"
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Let’s not get silly girls. A woman who trusted herself would not even ask this kind of question. If the relationship wasn’t working, that’s grounds for break up. Here’s the more important point. Women need to know before they start dating if they are interviewing for a potential husband, or if they are just looking [...]
"I think he's the one. He's exactly what I'm looking for in a husband. How do I get him to marry me?"
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First off, great to see you are so clear about spotting a guy that has everything you want in a husband. I’m presuming he makes lots of money and is somewhat nice to look at when you say that. Landing a good future husband is trickery, oops I mean tricky. For a man to go [...]
"How do I know my lifes purpose?"
December 17, 2009 by · 1 Comment
Depression, Self doubt and fear are the villains of every woman’s life. Around every success, sabotage lurks. Around every celebration, discouragement spies, and around every step towards making a difference in the world there hides a land mine ready to expose our character defects. Be ready girls; be ready to fight these tyrants with a [...]
"I'm not happy."
December 17, 2009 by · 2 Comments
Self-doubt and depression are your own personal villains. If Low Self Esteem is all about acting and feeling needy, the opposite of that must be feeling and acting generous. No matter how low a woman’s life can be, the minute she performs a generous act of kindness her entire day can be filled with joy. [...]
"I keep saying things, knowing it's going to cause damage.How do I control myself?"
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“Sometimes I say to my husband, “Can I please press rewind and take that all back, I’m trying to change my evil ways.” He laughs and says OK. And then I literally get to respond to him in a way that works. The opposite is unfortunately also true. When I am feeling bored, lonely or [...]
"I have everything I could ever want. Why do I feel so lonely?"
December 17, 2009 by · 1 Comment
As you stand in the light of success, be warned the minute you start focusing (at all) on your own needs, you will be whipped off the success track like one of those mass train derailments. However if you focus on the bigger picture, which is the impact you are making on the world, then [...]
Fantasy: “If He Isn’t Prepared to Treat Me like a Queen, He’s Not Good Enough for Me."
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Reality:A woman who thinks she deserves to be treated like queen is a woman in her ego. Your ego will kill that relationship, before the first date is over. A woman who is engaged in her own life’s purpose, who is generous and kind will be treated like a Queen, because she deserves to be; [...]
